Recipe for Life

Dream durability

When you really want something, how committed are you to going after it?

How durable is your dream?

If you have ever gone after something .. really gone after it, then you know what I am talking about. Where you didn’t take no for an answer. Where you JUST PLAIN could NOT be discouraged. I bet everyone has an example of this especially as a child… you just didn’t give up. You built something with sticks. You made a sandcastle. You rode a bike, or a skateboard, or learned to ski.

Sometimes though, we lose our intensity as we mature. Cynicism, reality checks, and fear of failure show up.

But what would happen if it didn’t? Have you had other pursuits as an adult that you went after with everything, and nothing could discourage you? You had such unshakable belief that every failure simply spurred you forward. This happened to me when I was teaching myself to make croissants. Also when my spaghetti squash field being stubborn. It Simply never crossed my mind that I wouldn’t succeed , so I didn’t give up until I did. It doesn’t mean I didn’t fail. I did. I failed a LOT. And it was hard. And I accomplished my goal.

A very different example comes in the form of a very personal story from my childhood.

When I was in second grade, I was given an IQ test. I didn’t do very well. But I didn’t know that. They started pulling me out of class in second grade so that I could work in a smaller group with another teacher (it was the principal, actually).

When I asked my parents why , I don’t know exactly what they said, but what I understood was that I was extra smart, and this group gave me the extra special attention I had earned from working so hard. When we moved across the country 2 years later, I was in a new school, and fell into a group of girls who were ACTUALLY really smart. They were actually in a smaller group with another teacher getting extra special attention but they earned from working so hard. So naturally I assumed I belonged there. My parents spoke with the school and got them to allow me participate, but I would get no credit for it. I didn’t care.. I was in the room where I thought I belonged. Over the years, through sheer determination and hard work, I earned my place.

Ultimately, I graduated from an Ivy League university with honors. I didn’t get in at first. But I worked hard to be able to transfer there. I simply didn’t give up. And I got a masters degree from another ivy. At some point in late high school, my parents told me the whole story and I was shocked and surprised… and completely in awe of what the human brain can REALLY DO.

The point of these stories is that your own belief about what you are and what you will accomplish means EVERYTHING. It’s the difference between you telling yourself when you have failed that you aren’t good enough, and you telling yourself that failure is a part of the process, and it is JUST A MATTER OF TIME before you succeed.

What’s on other side of this belief? Joy. Business Success. Happiness. Satisfaction. Money. PASSION & PURPOSE!

Let me help you…

The fact is, when you manage your mind, you and your brain are capable of truly remarkable things. I would love to help you with your very own business drama, mind drama, money drama, body drama and just plain life.. working with a coach can make ALL the difference.

Click below to schedule a free call and we can talk about what it would look like to work together to create your own life full of possibility.

Nancy:

“I am not a Forbes top 50, I am not a brilliant entrepreneur, I’m just not one of ““ those people. I’m your basic human who thinks she has it together Somedays and others I leave the remote in the refrigerator…. But let me tell you this ,everyone and anyone , not only needs a life coach like Adrienne but everyone DESERVES a life coach like Adrienne. Whether you want to work with her regarding your personal life or help diving in and discovering your passions, your potential careers or relationships, weight loss ..ANYTHING YOU STRUGGLE WITH …it doesn’t matter … Adrienne will help you discover how your brain works …how to harness your magnificent brain and how to use it to literally live your best life! “

Sumiko:

“If your intention is to get unstuck, move forward, make progress, switch gears, this works. Turns out I needed to open my mind a little more, add some unusual (for me) structure, so I can, though starting with baby steps, make progress.

Now… Adrienne, stepped in with tools for me to get unstuck with, thoughts forward, open heart and mind. Adrienne is amazingly supportive and steady handed with her guidance.

She’s the trainer you never realized you needed. Point A is stuck, how do you want to get to point B? Let Adrienne guide you to your point B.”

About Adrienne Evatt Coaching

Hi there,

I’m life and business coach, Adrienne Evatt. I help those in search of more happiness, satisfaction, money and joy create a life they love, while removing roadblocks along the way.

When you manage your mind, you are capable of deep wisdom and truly remarkable accomplishments. I help my clients grow businesses, create spaciousness in their days, make money, lose weight, create calm, grow income and so much more. Bring an open mind, determination, and perseverance and there is so much possibility for your life.

I have lived all over the world, was a corporate executive leader in a Fortune 5 company for 24 years, and then built a thriving baking business from the ground up that hit 6 figures in just over 2 years. I have a partner and 4 children and I live on a farm and vineyard in Northern California. I help my clients unlock and create their very own dream lives.

Want to work together? Click below to schedule a free call.

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There’s a knot in your necklace

This has happened to you, right? You get a knot in your necklace. Like a really really bad knot. Especially if you have a necklace with a very fine chain .. and that knot can get so insurmountably tangled that it just looks like a ball and it seems completely unsolvable.

You could think, “just forget it .. I may as well throw this necklace away ! There’s no way I will ever get that knot out and I will never be able to wear that necklace again.”

This has happened to me. I won’t throw the necklace away, but I will throw it on the bathroom counter and it will sit there tormenting me for months.

But, how do you get a knot out of a necklace?

Do you know? How do you do it?

One tiny little piece at a time… Just start loosening it little by little by little. You could even use a needle… A magnifying glass… There are tools that will help you and it is in fact NOT an unsolvable problem even though It can feel completely UN -fixable.

It’s like that when we get overwhelmed. Everything just gets so tangled up and messy and knotted up in this tight little ball that it seems like a completely unsolvable problem. There’s pieces of personal stuff, relationships, work, home, maybe your house is messy, maybe your kids aren’t listening, so many things can go into this tight little ball.

Well there’s a knot in your necklace… And when your emotions run high, your intelligence runs low… And it’s impossible to even SEE the tools that you need to start loosening and unwinding all of the things.

Your magnifying glass and your needle when the knot in your necklace is actually overwhelm becomes the lens that you look through and the actions that you take.

When you work with me as your coach, I will not only help you identify where all the knots are coming from but I will also help you find your magnifying glass and your needle. Working with me one on one as your coach is the best way to solve overwhelm and to grow and create the life that you love! More money, more happiness, more satisfaction.

The best part is what happens when you get it fixed. When the overwhelm has been solved and handled and the knot in your necklace is gone, a weight is lifted off of your shoulders. You can take a deep breath and feel open, happy, and relaxed. You have the ability to see a vision for the future. A long runway completely full of possibility and hope and a way to get to the awesome destinations of your future.

There is NOTHING like that feeling of possibility in your body and the knowledge that you can achieve your goals.

The fact is, when you manage your mind, you and your brain are capable of truly remarkable things. I would love to help you with your very own business drama, mind drama, money drama, body drama and just plain life.. working with a coach can make ALL the difference.